Thursday 16 March 2017

TWO OF MANY EAMONS



Eamon Casey who died recently was one of Ireland's most famous bishops. Irish bishops have been famous for lots of  things but Eamon became famous for one thing in particular, he fell  in love with a friend who was married  and they had a son .

When he was a student in Maynooth  seminary some of his fellow students prophesied  that he would not  live  long - they thought he would die in a mighty crash  driving his car  furiously fast.  Driving in  those  days if you " went  over forty" either you boasted about it or someone else  complained about it. Someone  suggested  there should be a law requiring a red flag to be carried in front of his car. He did have some crashes but nobody got hurt.  Our  concern about his loving or driving  may make us  forget how  caring, thoughtful, compassionate were so many other things he did. Like  cooperating with Des Wilson (no relation of mine I'm afraid ) to build houses for people in England who didn't have any or heading  Trócaire in Ireland to help get food and a living for people in this world who had neither.

Eamon Casey was ordained in 1951 and so, as Maurice Chevalier might have sung, I remember him well. He went to England as  a lot of Catholic priests did in the fifties and sixties , saw the plight of workers  there  who were  paid for the job but not  provided with decent living  during the job or after it.

There was another Eamon who followed much the same track, Eamon Gaynor who was ordained the same day I was - he joined up with people like the Mc Alpine's fusiliers  Christy Moore sings about and  went along with them as they  shifted camp from one section of English motorway to the next, living like nomads  because that's the way it was. One Eamon was bringing companionship to the labourers , another Eamon providing homes for them  if they could get  a bit of prosperity and peace to live in  them. Brave young men  who thought comfort was for other people.  Falling in love "inappropriately" and driving too fast seem  not to matter all that much when you look back on it.

Institutions are strange. They see what you are good at and get you to do something else instead. Casey was taken from the houses and Gaynor from the motorways back to Ireland to savour the -- what's the word, decitement perhaps --  of  the Irish church struggling to ignore the Second Vatican Council. They made Casey a bishop and Gaynor a curate and there you were. Casey eventually became head of Trócaire which was good, although  one always remembers it was founded when  anti-birthcontrol hysteria  made many religious people wary of organisations like Oxfam. Fortunately Trócaire and similar organisations did magnificently and carried themselves with dignity until the hysteria faded. One of the people responsible for that was Brian Mc Keown , a  Belfastman, one is proud to say.

As for the Eamons of this world and the people they generously befriended, some of them built motorways for our English neighbours, some fought their wars for them, some preached their sermons for them, some built their schools and managed their hospitals for them. One prominent member  of the Catholic church in England and generous admirer of the Irish said to me : One of the best things you Irish people  could do for England is go home and force us to do all this for  ourselves.

One is not always grateful for large mercies though. I don't know exactly  where  the  idealism of Eamon of the Motorways led him eventually but I do know  the other Eamon's  love life made us forget how many houses he and that other Des Wilson got built.

How would it have been if the church administration had brought  one of the Eamons back not to administer church affairs but to help the homeless in Ireland , and told the other Eamon to stay where he was and go on taking care of  the uninsured and lonely Irish who were  left, as it were,  by the side of the road? 

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